Girls At My Age!!

Hola..

Yeah, I know is like only 5 minutes away from my previous post. Just in case i forgot again. So i post another 1 again. You see i've got lot things to say but then i didn't know how to restructure all the stories. This time is about girls.

Girls at my age might be already married and probably with kids. So people around you especially the elders will start asking you. "When are you getting married? You have a boyfriend already? When am i going to hear good news from you?" All sort of relationship or married things started pouring in. For Chinese girls, at Chinese New Year time, when girls age getting old, they tends to skip or went out when there is relative visit. Cos the question will always repeat every year. Even you are married, they will ask you "When you will have kids?" When you already have kid, they will also ask "When are you going to have a second one?" Aren't they tired repeating the question every year? Or maybe is just a norm?

Girls at my age, the more you grew, the more selective girl you become. You've seen lot of different type of people during your working life. The bad, the short, the handsome, the gay, the lesbian, the nice, and some many the..... If is not yours, it still not yours. So my friends or relative said "Some good one you have to grab" But who doesn't know the good one need to be grab. Is just that does you have the chance and luck to grab? Is not only seeing chances but also the luck.

Girls at my age, when you found the one. You will always ask to yourself, is he the one? Even after married, you would worry will my husband be loyal to me forever? Or does he still sending text messages to his ex-girlfriend. When he say busy you start thinking, is he really busy?  Don't tell me you don't think any of that before. At least it slip in your mind some of the time. But if you keep thinking about things that testing your trust to him. Is better for you to take a break and think thoroughly why is it so. Is not healthy relationship though. I mean not all marriage trust is being tested. If yours is, maybe find someone close to you and get some little advice.

Girls at my age, most of my friends were married and have kids now. All is about mama topic. What to eat during pregnancy? What to do when kids having fever? And so much things about kids. Well, that is majority girls that will encounter it. It might include you and me.

Girls at my age, some still remain single. I know is not they want to stay single. And i know is not because they enjoy being single. Is just they see things much more open than anyone else. They no longer desperate for love like in their 20s. They no longer had grudge with ex-lover. They now much appreciate the family they have now. They now much appreciated the friendship that last more than 10 years. They much appreciated what they have now.

Girls at my age, no matter you are single or a mum or a wife. You still are girls that had dream. A dream whether to have a family. A dream whether to be a lady boss. A dream whether to be a traveler. What ever your dream it is, we, girls should love ourselves more than anyone else.

Is because we, girls, gave life which man couldn't.

Long live to girls.

Love,
Maye